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Gloria Campos's avatar

I think when conversations start out as casual ,making a little joke seems to help me when I'm faced with the public on a daily basis. They laugh. We laugh and then a conversation will start. I do crave those interactions with people, so when the ice is broken. It's such a major relief. Lol

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Marika 🇫🇮's avatar

I can relate! I was so nervous at this event. Then, I went to get some water, and someone accidentally spilled it all over the table. He looked a bit embarrassed—I laughed, he laughed, and the ice was broken. Next thing I knew, we were chatting about business.

So, I guess the list of tips should include: Find ways to laugh with people! 😄

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Gloria Campos's avatar

Thank you for this article. Fellow introvert. I've have been in similar situations. I have a lot to say, but in big gatherings I tend to develop a little anxiety. These tips help. I'm trying so hard to get out of my shell, but it's getting easier.

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Marika 🇫🇮's avatar

It's lovely to hear that the things I’ve noticed are helpful for you too!

What especially helps you to get out of your shell?

I have the next event like this in just a few weeks. I hope that regular exposure to these situations will make it easier to participate and speak up. But right now, after a long day at work, even a thought of "networking event" feels draining. 😓

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